Have you ever had trouble making a decision?

Yeah, me too.

Those of us with perfectionist tendencies often experience pain when faced with a decision that needs to made.

The thing that paralyses us is ‘what if I make the WRONG decision’?

So we hem and haw and go back and forth. We meditate, ruminate and vacillate.

We put ourselves through pain, and when we finally force ourselves to make a decision, we worry about it, and sometimes backtrack and undo the decision.

Living with indecision means that we live in a constant state of uncertainty.

And, really, that’s just not pleasant, is it?

Well, what if there was no such thing as a wrong decision?

What if every decision you took was ‘right’, for where you are right now? Even if ‘the worst’ happened, and everything blew up, backfired and bit you on the bum?

I’m here to tell you that you’d still be OK. You’d get through it. And you’d come out the other side with some valuable information, a life lesson that would help guide you further along your path.

The universe loves clarity. It responds well to clarity. It follows strong, bold, powerful energy, and when you make a firm decision, the universe responds and starts drawing to you what you need.

It’s also important to remember that if you get too emotional when making a decision, and you create a lot of angst, the law of attraction works to bring you more of the same.

A good approach to making a decision is to be thoroughly proactive, to be in your power. To be strong, and bold, but smart.

Step 1
Gather information and really think about the pros and cons of each decision you could make (but don’t agonise).

Step 2
Give yourself a little ‘chewing time’, if you need it, but don’t let that process drag on.

Step 3
Hold your hand on your heart and ask for a ‘yes’ or ‘no’, paying attention to what your stomach feels like. Intuition often reveals itself as a ‘gut instinct’.

This ‘head + heart’ process works for me. Would you like to try it? Be warned that your subconscious will try to hold you back, to keep you safe (that’s it’s job, so thank it for trying to look after you!), but if decision-making is a problem for you, then you need to start being very bold, to start overriding your subconscious programming, and to start thinking of yourself as a good decision-maker.

Once you’ve made a decision, stick with it, unless evidence overwhelmingly shows you that you should make another decision – but give it time. Sometimes you just need to ‘take a deep breath and jump’, to make a decision, to see how it plays out.

But don’t ever think of your original decision as being ‘wrong’. It was just a stepping stone to get you where you needed to go, to give you feedback.

You know, I often find that people who have trouble making decisions also have trouble with clutter. This makes sense, when you think about it, because you have to make decisions about what to keep, and where to keep it. If you don’t make decisions with your ‘stuff’, then everything builds up, overwhelm kicks in, and nothing gets dealt with. You see the piles of clutter lying around and you feel worse, and your home starts to gather negative, stagnant energy around that clutter.

So, I’d like to invite you to be part of a very special program I’m running this month. It’s all about decluttering, so you’ll be getting to practice your new decision-making skills and get rid of your clutter at the same time!

If this highly supportive program ‘speaks’ to you, then I’d encourage you to make a decision about whether to join us.

To discover more about this program, which is called The Living Rich Declutter,  simply head here…

Wishing you clarity and decisiveness, and all ‘the good stuff’ that is naturally attracted to you when you live this way.